How To Plan an Adventure Date?

So, you’re looking to take your significant other on an adventure date? Whether you’ve been in a relationship for a while or want to get to know someone better on a first or second date, going on a planned “adventure” outing can be an exciting and out-of-the-box way to challenge the dating status quo.

While you might have heaps of ideas for what counts as an adventure date, we’ve highlighted the below tips and tricks for how to plan the perfect adventure date, what counts as an adventure date and the steps to take to make sure both you and your date have the best time.

 

What is an Adventure Date?

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While the term ‘adventure date’ will probably mean different things to different people, you can think of it as an outing or planned experience where you step outside the norm of everyday life and try something new together. It can be a fun way to challenge yourself and each other, especially when you’re getting to know each other on a deeper level.

 

What Counts as an Adventure Date?

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While there’s no hard or fast rule as to what counts as an adventure date, there are activities that stand out as the go-to.

1. Walks and Hikes

Going for walks and hikes is a fun, easy way to get outdoors with your special someone and reconnect with nature. All you need is your favourite activewear, sneakers and water bottle and you’re ready to go. Bonus points if you decide on a hike near the beach or your favourite picnic spot – then you can bring snacks to enjoy a picnic as well.

2. Outdoor Picnics

If you’re looking for a way to get outdoors that’s not combined with a hike, why not opt for a picnic in your local park or garden? Set out a picnic rug to enjoy that special time together. 

To help spur intimate conversation on your next adventure date, our Picnic With A Twist date experience is the perfect plus one. All you need is a picnic rug, your choice of snacks and our connection cards and you’re ready to enjoy a cute date in the park with your love.

3. Bike Rides

Similar to the first activity, bike riding can be a low-effort way to get out into the sunshine and travel to your favourite spots or neighbourhoods. Finish your ride together at your favourite cafe or brunch spot for a low-key coffee date to chat about your favourite activities and plan your next outing together.

4. Road Trips

A road trip with your date is a fun and simplistic way to see a new spot or location, creating lasting joined memories for you both to look back on fondly. Across Victoria, we’re spoiled for choice when it comes to scenic drives and Insta-worthy destinations, from the Great Ocean Road to Mornington Peninsula. 

All you need is a vehicle (if you don’t drive, you can always catch the train or the bus together) and your favourite playlists or podcasts and away you go. For even more intimacy, turn off the music and focus on each other, asking questions and diving deep as you cruise down the coast or far away from the city.

5. Hobby Classes

While it might not be the standard, typical adventure date, partaking in joint hobby classes, like pottery or cooking is a great way to get both of your creative juices flowing. Whether you’re learning how to spin pottery or how to make pasta, these group or private activities are perfect for commemorating special moments in your relationship. While they may be on the more expensive side, you both can walk away with a sweet gift for one another or a new skill to share in the future.

For combining a fun hobby and intimate conversation, why not try our It’s Clay Time date? This date kit takes the best parts about playing with clay and dedicated conversation so you can enjoy a fun hobby-style date from home.

How to Choose an Adventure Date?

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This really depends on two factors:

  • The personalities of both yourself and your partner
  • Your budget

1. Your Personalities

Whether you’re in an established relationship or not, you want the person you’re with to have a good time. Adventure dates are the perfect way to try something new together, but it’s important to take into account both your and your partner’s personality, likes and dislikes. Planning an adventure date where your partner may feel scared, unsafe or too far out of their comfort zone may not be the right option – especially if they are a potential partner you’re trying to get to know.

The solution? Communication! 

Float the idea or the activity you have planned with them to gauge how interested they’d be. Even if you’ve known your partner for a long time, it’s still important to ask and understand their interest, showing you have the emotional foresight and care about their opinion before diving straight in. While we all love the idea of spontaneity, it’s still a good choice to flag your adventure date scenario to your partner before you book just in case they’re not interested.

2. Your Budget

It’s fair to say that dating can be expensive but that doesn’t mean it has to be. There are plenty of adventure-style dates that are inexpensive but still allow you both to push yourselves and explore new activities together. The whole point of dating is to spend time with your special person, so choose an activity that will suit both your budgets and will still allow the space for intimate conversation – even if that’s a coffee walk through the park or a full day planned with activities.

Planning an adventure date is a fun and unique way to explore each other’s interests and get to know your partner better. To enhance your next day or nighttime adventure with your love, explore date and experience kits from Rendé to help spark intimate conversation for deeper relationships now.